{"id":13783,"date":"2012-11-03T15:50:55","date_gmt":"2012-11-03T15:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.speakslaw.com\/faqs\/my-fiance-says-we-should-have-a-prenuptial-agreement-before-we-get-married-is-this-really-necessary-it-seems-unromantic-to-me\/"},"modified":"2023-11-22T12:39:51","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T12:39:51","slug":"my-fiance-says-we-should-have-a-prenuptial-agreement-before-we-get-married-is-this-really-necessary-it-seems-unromantic-to-me","status":"publish","type":"faqs","link":"https:\/\/www.speakslaw.com\/faqs\/my-fiance-says-we-should-have-a-prenuptial-agreement-before-we-get-married-is-this-really-necessary-it-seems-unromantic-to-me\/","title":{"rendered":"My fianc\u00e9 says we should have a prenuptial agreement before we get married. Is this really necessary? It seems unromantic to me."},"content":{"rendered":"

Let\u2019s answer the last bit of your question first: Yes, it\u2019s probably unromantic. But that\u2019s only to be expected\u2014love and romance aren\u2019t practical things. They tend to be all consuming. They are focused on the here-and-now and don\u2019t look forward to the future.<\/p>\n

And\u2014let\u2019s face it\u2014sometimes romantic love doesn\u2019t last. Bedazzled as you are right now, you don\u2019t want to think about that, of course. But acknowledging that sometimes people fall out of love isn\u2019t going to doom your relationship.<\/p>\n

People can enter a marriage in North Carolina with vastly different expectations of what married life is like, and with significantly different resources. In some cases, it just makes sense to plan for what might happen in the future if the marriage does not work out, just as you and your fianc\u00e9e will probably be altering your life insurance coverage now that you are starting a family together.<\/p>\n

A prenuptial agreement is a legal contract between people soon to marry, committing both parties in advance to certain agreements if a divorce occurs. Such a document can:<\/p>\n